Family Share Story Of Stirling Edwards-Bland

Drunk Driver Convicted Of Death

By Rachael Smith

It’s been almost 14 months since the tragic day that local 12-year-old boy, Stirling Edwards-Bland, lost his life when a drunk driver ploughed into the family car.

Since that time, his twin brother, older sister, and parents have been trying to process and grieve, while dealing with the injustice of Stirling’s loss.

“We will continue to struggle with Stirling’s loss as long as we live,” said his father, Simon Edwards-Bland.

“He was a shining light in our lives, and we miss his bouncy energy, cheeky smile, and words of ‘I Love You’ before he went to bed at night.”

On July 12 this year, the drunk driver, Graham Anthony Hanson, was convicted of manslaughter and jailed for 11 years, 80 per cent of which he must serve.

During the hearing, held at the Supreme Court in Mackay, it was discovered the Townsville-based man had consumed between 12 and 14 cans of full-strength beer in the three hours leading up to the incident.

An ABC news report of the court hearing stated that he had been travelling from Townsville to Midge Point to sell a quad bike, when he stopped at a bottle shop in Bowen to buy a carton of full-strength beers.

Three hours after the crash, the driver recorded a reading of 0.210 per cent and it is believed this could have been up to 0.3 per cent at the time of the incident.

During the hearing, the court also heard this was not the first time the man had been caught for drink driving, with five separate incidences recorded across three different states.

While listening to the driver during the hearing, Stirling’s parents said that they did not see any true remorse expressed.

“He was remorseful because he had to be, but I don’t buy into it at all,” said Simon.

“He forgot to bring a letter he had supposedly written, and I don’t know how that happened because he had a lot of time on his hands to fold up a piece of paper and stick it in his back pocket.”

Both Stirling’s parents said they found it hard to feel “happy” at the conviction, although they confirmed it was at the upper end of what they were told they could expect.

“Stirling should be here with us,” said his mum, Tracy.

“The sentencing was a door closed, in terms of allowing us and the Whitsunday community to see some accountability and justice but we still have a long road ahead of us.”

“No amount of time will ever bring what we’ve lost back,” said Simon.

During the hearing, Simon read out an impact statement which he said was more like a eulogy.

In the statement he detailed how traumatic it had been for Tracy and for Stirling’s twin brother who had been travelling in the vehicle at the time of the incident.

“Tracy and Austin are still struggling with Survivors guilt, it is hard for them to understand how they walked away with minor injuries, while Stirling lost his life,” he explained.

“Austin was sitting next to Stirling in the back of the car, stuck for a time, and aware that Stirling had probably already gone, due to un-responsiveness.

“This is something he will have to live with for the rest of his life and isn’t something that any 12-year-old should have to deal with.”

Stirling’s family decided to share their story with the community as a way of saying thank you for all the support and love they received from both friends and strangers in the immediate aftermath of the tragedy.

While they prefer to stay under the radar and process their loss privately, they also acknowledge the community’s shared grief, especially those whose lives were touched in some way by Stirling.

During the court hearing Stirling’s dad, Simon, read out an emotional speech that showed the depth of the family’s loss, but also gave an insight into the incredible person Stirling was.

Known as an empath and a protector, Stirling touched the lives of many.

At school, he frequently stood-up for anyone who was being bullied and was known to unconditionally support anyone in his peer group.

“There are many entries in Stirling’s books of condolence from children he knew, saying he’d stepped in to help when they were being picked on, and that he always had a smile for someone who was having a bad day,” said Simon.

Stirling was born with a cleft lip and palate which meant lots of trips to hospital and several operations during the course of his life.

On each trip, a highlight of the visit to the Children’s hospital in Brisbane was spending a large portion of spare time after his appointments at the Starlight foundation, where he loved playing computer games with similarly sick children.

“Where we, as adults, may have seen a child disfigured in some way from a nasty accident or suffering from the effects of treatment for cancer, Stirling saw another like-minded child who wanted to play games, and perhaps forget about the rigours of the day or what was to come,” said Simon.

“This exposure to sick children, we believe, humbled Stirling, and formed the core of his personality.”

Stirling was also a passionate animal-lover who dreamt of being a vet one day.

He begged his family for a pet dog for many years and his wish was finally granted in 2021 when they brought home Lloyd.

“He and his dog Lloyd were inseparable for one year prior to the incident,” said Simon in the statement.

“It is hard to spend time with Lloyd without feeling a great sadness, that it should be Stirling nurturing Lloyd instead of us. If Stirling were here today, he would be pushing us for more animals.”

It is for this reason that the family have decided to use the money donated by the community after the accident to create a Dog Exercise Park in Cannonvale.

“Every day after school Stirling took Lloyd to the dog park next to the school in Cannonvale,” said Tracy.

“So, we wanted to remember him there by providing something that the community can enjoy.”

So far, one piece of equipment has arrived, and the water fountain is already a popular spot for lively dogs.

Soon there will be a memorial plaque laid at the fountain with a QR code where visitors can scan and read a story about Stirling and his life.

The water fountain will soon be joined by exercise equipment including a tunnel, ramp, jumps, and weave poles.

Once everything is in place Stirling’s family would like to invite the community to bring their dogs to check out the equipment.

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Stirling Edwards-Bland (left) with his family. Photo supplied

Stirling Edwards-Bland will always be remembered as an empath and a protector, touching the lives of many. Photo supplied

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