Thursday, November 20, 2025

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Mackay and Whitsunday Life

Managing Holiday Stress and Expectations

By Sharon Ashman

The Christmas season often arrives with excitement and pressure. From gift shopping to family gatherings, many people feel stretched thin trying to meet expectations. Financial strain, social commitments, and the desire to make everything “perfect” can lead to heightened stress and exhaustion.

Prioritising rest, setting realistic expectations, and creating moments of calm can make a significant difference. Focus on connection rather than perfection, whether that’s sharing a meal, sending a thoughtful message, or simply taking time to breathe.

Practising mindfulness, limiting comparisons (especially on social media), and maintaining regular routines can help regulate mood and energy. If stress becomes overwhelming, reaching out to friends, family, or mental health professionals can be a decisive step. Sometimes, the best gift we can offer ourselves and others is kindness and acceptance. Be your own best friend.  Tell yourself whatever is happening is only temporary

If you’d like more support in managing holiday stress for yourself or your family, visit my website  https://www.personaltransitions.com.au/ or give me a call 0418708214.

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