Creative Column – April 24th

What is love? What does it mean? What is the difference between platonic and romantic love?

At the core of the human psyche – the question of love has been pondered for thousands of years. The majority of religions, the majority of classic literature, the majority of poetry – of art – music – centres around the theme of love.  

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Artists dedicate their whole life to reflections on love – the gloom of its absence and the fear of its presence.

A lot of has been said about love. There is certainly no shortage of commentary. I think one of my favourite musings on love however – comes from one of my all-time favourite shows Fleabag written by Phoebe Waller Bridge. This monologue comes from a character simply known as ‘The Priest’ played brilliantly by Andrew Scott. I’ll leave it here.  

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“Love is awful. It’s painful. It’s frightening. It makes you doubt yourself, judge yourself, distance yourself from the other people in your life. It makes you selfish. It makes you creepy. It makes you obsessed with your hair. It makes you cruel. It makes you say and do things you never though you would do. It’s all any of us want, and its hell when we get there. So, no wonder it’s something we don’t want to do on our own. I was taught if we’re born with love then life is about choosing the right place to put it. People talk about that a lot, feeling right, when it feels right it’s easy. But I’m not sure that’s true. It takes strength to know what’s right. And love isn’t something that weak people do. Being a romantic takes a hell of a lot of hope. I think what they mean is, when you find somebody that you love, it feels like hope.”

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